Love and Studies ❣️💕💕

Article by: 

Ibrahim Daniel B.(Rio)

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Relationship is a vital part of every human life, it is our ability to socialize, relate and interact with our Social Sphere.

Relationship goes far beyond male and female intimacy, sometimes we  forget that we can relate with animals and even Technological gadgets. When we wake up from our bed as humans sometimes, the first things we look for are our phone(s), some people might not necessarily need to go on social media, but sometimes we find almost anything we are looking for through the phone via Internet. We interact with our phone whether we like it or not and that is also a relationship.

A man that owns a dog or cat and communicates with his dog or cat, does have a relationship with it. We have friends neighbors, classmates, family members etc that we tend to interact or relate with, the continuous and consistent relation with anybody or anything is what can be reffered to as relationship. All of this other relationship requires different level of understanding to be able to relate well with whoever and whatever we wish to relate with.

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However, an intimate relationship between the opposite sex is one of the most fascinating type of relationship, it involves high level of Psychological and emotional energy. When a guy likes a girl or a lady likes a guy and they both find themselves interesting to one another, at a certain level of expressing themselves, they might both begin to do things irrational because their emotions is now what controls their psychology or medium of reasoning. A man can go to almost any length to proof himself in the relationship, likewise the lady or woman, some might do almost anything to make the man understand that they have all he needs. There are different categories of people in relationship.

One of the categories are those who think they can use what they have to get the kind of relationship they want, some of this set of humans are always providing material things for the person they want or are in an intimate relationship with. One of the most fascinating thing is that some people that are materialistic by default can be bought by this category of people because they fit in. 

Another category are those who think relationship can be sealed by sexual intercourse. They don't mind the dangers of having pre-marital sex, they try to subject the man or woman using their body whether beautiful or not. This type are usually loyal to the core.

Another category are those who have special skills in keeping multiple relationship, an act of cheating. This category Specialize in telling lies, they are usually self centered, and some are just too afraid to be honest because they believe the world cannot be trusted like they can't.

However, the mentioning of all this categories cannot be exhausted, but here is one of the most important things to note is that every relationship has a purpose, it either ends up in marriage or seperation, which can be before or after marriage. In ABU for instance, many relationship that starts in school amongst the students will end before graduation or after graduation. The truth is that very few students marry their mates or course mates. The reason is because many disregard their school mate will amount to a good spouse, another reason is that the ladies are quick at getting married before the male, once they believe they are at a marriageable age they do it quickly.

It is also important to know that any relationship that exist between this two parties a guy and girl where one of the two knows or they both know it won't end up as marriage, one of them is using the other or they are both using each other. 

Intimate relationship is not supposed to be as complex as it is today, if we are honest with each other, and faithful, many intimate relationships wouldn't be as complex as they are seen. 

Do you think relationships in school usually end after school, if yes or No you can state your reason below at the comment section.